That shouldn't have happened

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You need to think of your retirement. If I had saved some of his earlier emails, it may have helped.

If I can help

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Add up your utilities and what you pay to maintain your home, include everything right down to how much you spend on gas for your lawn mower. Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. It can all be changed, it can all be modified, it can all be worked around.

Expensive, but they can make or break your case. Literally, at least a dozen a day. He's also responsible for their health insurance.

Stand up for yourself, even at the risk of sounding like a harpy in your attorney's office. If he tosses you some cash, record the amount and date.

Don't sit back and assume

That's why I'm writing this down, that's why I'm exposing my past and my mistakes and my moments of bad judgment. You have your man back where he belongs, and you think, just for a bit, that you've won. When he's done, he leaves. You have to get over that. She was cheap, and she had some prior experience.

Hire the best attorney you can afford. At this moment the biggest expense may be shoes and camp, but as they grow, so do their bills.

If I can help just one of you get through this and end up with fewer battle scars than I have, it will be worth it. Don't sit back and assume that others will look out for you.

Which he did take care of, for a while. Don't worry about sounding petty. Don't let this happen to you. But she let a lot of stuff get past her, stuff that ended up costing me lots of money in the long run. Based upon my experience, and the experiences of other divorced women I've talked to, this is fairly commonplace.

Look at your mortgage, really look at it. Try contacting organizations in your city that help women in crisis or community groups that help low-income people. Just copy and paste the codes we make available here. As far as my case goes, yes, he was able to do that.